Matilda and Niles

What is up with these two. Poor Niles has no idea he is being controlled and taken for a ride. She is just mad he won't marry her because she thought she'd be in the U.S. in a week. Now she is manipulating him and lying to play on his sympathies so he will do what she wants. She is like many on these shows. A terrible person. She planned the wedding blindsiding him. He talks about marrying her and the date is set and the wedding is on the minute he steps into Ghana. I cannot stand to even look at her.