Is showering everyday even realistic for people with adhd?

So I don't seek to gross anyone out, but my mother just made a comment that really irritated me, saying, "Showering should be something people do every day dude," in response to my comment that I showered yesterday after work.

She was getting ready for a party we were about to have and I was like, "Oh do you want me to cut the pineapple," and she said something along the lines of, "Sure, after you shower." It was so bizzare and non-sequitur that I had to do a double take and ask again. She said the same thing and I said the aforementioned, "I showered yesterday though???"

It's just so much effort and work to convince my brain that I have the time for a shower. I have a very odd work schedule and I feel lucky if I can get 2 showers in during the work week, taking a shower once on the weekends. That one comment from my mother really rubbed me the wrong way and made my efforts to take showers feel worthless.

To be clear, I can tell when I smell bad and when I definitely need a shower. Sometimes I take showers just to meet expectations that people should shower more than once a week, and I never get comments about when I smell bad or see people shrivel their noses, I'm very aware and paranoid of that sort of thing. But now I don't want to take a shower today just to spite my mother. She frequently acts like she knows what I am going through with my ADHD, and then asks me to do things that proves that she doesn't. But am I in the wrong here?

Edit: I just finished showering, and my mother shouted downstairs "... cause someone needs to cut the pineapple yet!!!" I shout back up as I'm drying myself off, "I just finished showering...." "Oh I know, I'm just teasing." Jesus Christ this woman. That was so fucking passive aggressive I nearly popped a vein.