AITA for making a friend feel guilty?

I was accused of being manipulative. Was I?

So i have this friend. Whenever we plan something, if he was the one planning a hangout, i responded happily and excitedly every time and made time for him despite my busy schedule.

Whenever i planned something, he responded with words “i don’t know”, “maybe”, “we’ll see”.

This kinda made me feel like i was being bothersome and he doesn’t actually want to be there. I don’t like being a burden.

Before, when he said “i don’t know”, i responded with “if you don’t want to come hangout, it’s fine “ and he replied “when did i say that? I am coming”

Fast forward, recently, I shared a happy news with him. I was very very happy about something and asked him if he would like to celebrate with me. He once again responded with “we’ll see”. So, this time i decided to express how it makes me feel when he responds that way to my enthusiastic invite. I told him “please prioritize me. You know I prioritize you. I have never said we’ll see to you. I had seven classes and still never said it”.

The only reason i said that is because i really really wanted to be prioritized that day. It was winter break and no one else was in town. I really wanted to go out and celebrate and his attitude was hurtful.

Anyways, he ghosted me. Later i asked him about it and he said we shouldn’t be friends anymore because i tried to manipulate him and he hates that. I told him i wasn’t trying to manipulate him and i was sorry. I told him i was just expressing what i was feeling at that time but in a cute way with sweet emojis. He said that he didn’t see it as cute and it made him feel guilty which is why he hated it. He said we could stay friends but i am not allowed to manipulate him. He also called me emotionally unintelligent for not being able to see that.

Well.. i said okay but i stopped talking to him after that. It is just that, i can see a little bit how he could think that i was manipulative, but i don’t know how i would express my feelings anymore. Am i not allowed to tell him that something hurt me because if it made him feel guilty i would be the bad person? Am i not allowed to ask him to be nice to me? I don’t know how to talk to him anymore and i just can’t.