My partner said I’m selfish bc I don’t wear socks more than once?

Sooo… Im neurodivergent as fuck. Weird some may even say freely.

I have this WEIRD thing with socks. I buy a pair I wear them once and then put them in my “sock bag” and then donate them when it’s full.

I love the feeling of fresh brand new socks… they fit so good, so comfy and cushiony and white. The second wear… not so much. The third wear.. not even an option. Ive been in the habit since I was in high school to wear them once and just put a new pair on. I spend around $60 monthly on socks. I don’t mind.

My partner gets sooooo angry about the fact that I don’t continually wear my socks and that I’m wasting my money and time on “ocd bullshit”. That it’s all in my head that the socks feel different after the first use and I’m being selfish to the people who can’t afford to buy new socks!?? Idk…

I guess I don’t get why it matters. It’s my money. I donate them when I’m done.. what harm is it?

Strangely this is affecting my relationship and I’m not really sure what to do about it… AITA or just weird as fuck?