AIO - Reply to the “over reacting about boyfriend watching porn” thread that got deleted

The amount of men that rushed to the comments to defend their habits is sickening. I’m not insecure as some of you suggested and I’m also not jealous about a “phone” as some suggested, porn is much more than just a phone.

There is real research that shows how porn negatively affects your brain. It’s crazy how you can grow an addiction to it. Think about that. You can grow addicted to watching random people fuck each other on a screen. That is mental illness. Many of you who identify as straight men, haven’t fucked other men to even know the issues that porn has caused men for REAL intimacy. I’m sure y’all aren’t talking about it with your buddies either. Jerking off with your hand eventually desensitizes your dick to the point where you can’t get off with a real women. And your minds are so used to being turned on by a screen that some men can’t even get hard without watching it or can’t get hard /off without doing some really vile shit that they’ve seen in porn. It can truly ruin the connection you have with your partner, Why tf would women want to deal with these issues? Not being able to stop watching porn shows you have no sexual discipline and a man without sexual discipline will do anything when they have their urge. You all are so blind to how harmful porn can be for you and your relationships with women and why it would be best for women to avoid men who watch porn regularly. If your woman was lusting over a man who wasn’t you and literally orgasming to the fantasy of some other man fucking her, I’m sure you all would have a problem. But because society has normalized this habit for men, you guys want to tell me that I have no merit in what I say. And for those who say you’re not addicted but jumped in the comments to defend it with your life, If you don’t think it’s a problem for you, I invite you to go 1 whole month without watching porn. If you can’t? Maybe take a hard look in the mirror and realize that maybe what I say has some merit. I acknowledge this is NOT ALL MEN, but shit, it’s a lot of you.

A lot of you said I better be fucking my man whenever he wants or sucking his dick whenever he wants if I don’t let him watch porn and this just proves my point of how porn has completely fucked your mind and dehumanized women for you. If you think It is my job to take care of my man’s each and every urge, regardless of how I’m feeling, if I’m sick, if I’m postpartum, or if I’m just fucking tired , y’all are sick. My man is not an animal who must satisfy EVERY SINGLE urge he has. He has SELF CONTROL. And women are HUMANS who have a LIFE that doesn’t revolve around making sure a man cums. but lucky for him, I’m a very sexual women but there have definitely been times where I just can’t and his answer is not to go jerk off to porn. He can wait. He is not an animal.

I wanna say this is also not because of religion I don’t GAF about religion, I say this because of science and the human experience that I as a women have experienced and many other women who I know, that have experienced a man completely sexually and mentally ruined by porn. Women reading this please share your experience, men should really see how fucked up their peers are.

So am I overreacting with my opinions about porn?