What do these men really want?

I don't understand what's happening in this arranged marriage game. Let me tell why almost all of these potential partners have rejected me.

Reason 1. Men don't want you if your salary is higher than them , some don't want if your salary is equal or lower than them. It seems really weird, because for years women have been blamed for being shallow.

Reason 2 . For not continuing my career in the UK and joining an institution in India. Note that these are not Men working or residing abroad. These are men working and residing in India.

Personally I feel it's brutal out there most of them have rejected me without even seeing my picture and some of them have constantly claimed this being the reason too. I am really surprised is it because of the options available to people? I don't really understand someone help me out 🤷‍♀️