Hearing people talk about “male loneliness” pisses me off so much

I hate when people act like loneliness and rejection are only things that men go through. I’ll sure a lot of people here can relate, but for a lot of my life I have had trouble connecting with people/making friends and I have definitely experienced rejection from men. It is very dismissive and hurtful to women who do struggle with feeling lonely to act like it’s so easy for any woman to form connections.

I swear in some communities you can’t even talk about the struggles of women feeling rejected or lonely without a bunch of men being like “well now you are just experiencing the daily life of being a man” like since when did men start gatekeeping loneliness?? I even saw a post on an autism account saying something like “being a girl with autism is experiencing male loneliness” like wtf? It’s not “male loneliness” it’s just loneliness. These people act like every single woman lives the life of an NT conventionally attractive extroverted wealthy white girl.