Has anyone had an actual positive experience with their OB-GYN? If so, who and why?

TW: pregnancy loss

Been seeing Dr. Bennett over at Women’s Health Specialists and have loved her, but recently been really disappointed. I got my first positive pregnancy test last week after a year of trying and she told me to come see her at the 8 week mark (which I understand is standard). But I started miscarrying over the weekend. I was so scared and really didn’t know what was going on. I sent a message through their patient portal on Sunday afternoon, and she didn’t respond until mid-morning the next day (and dismissed it as normal spotting until I showed her pictures). I tried calling and messaging again Monday morning and the phone line kept saying they weren’t open (it was well after their 8am posted open time). Since I didn’t hear from her, I decided to go to After Ours OB-GYN since I could just walk in. They confirmed I was in fact having a miscarriage. They also mentioned next time that I should come see them immediately after a positive pregnancy test so they could check my levels and potentially prescribe me something to help (like progesterone).

I’m trying not to be too hard on Dr. Bennett and I understand her hands may have been tied in some ways, but I can’t help but feel like I really needed a more responsive doctor in that situation. And she was aware of my complications but still seemed to not take me seriously.

If any of you have had a better experience - especially someone who excels in high risk pregnancies and is a great communicator, please let me know. If I can do better that’s all I want to know.