What on earth is going on with the f**ter?

I'm over 18, so not a minor. A little while ago, I noticed that the fter had actually relaxed a lot, but now I can't do literally anything without it triggering. I was having a completely wholesome and pg role-play, but the fter freaked out when I tried hugging the character. I cannot hug or kiss anyone without it being triggered. Sometimes it would just happen for literally no reason at all, when nothing even remotely intimate happens. Is there anything we can do about this? Is there a way we can let C.ai know that we're upset? I get that the f**ter has always been strict, and C.ai probably doesn't care, but still...