2 Points I concluded are not making sense coming from conservative/legalistic Christians

Expecting people to not have Sex AND NEVER Masturbate in ANY way until they are married, is not realistic or healthy at all ane could even lead to abuse and/ir People marrying the completely wrong person.

If you truly believe in the Bible, you HAVE TO believe Jesus drank Wine and gave people Wine (No, it wasn't Grape Juice (LOL) and No, it wasn't just for sanitary purposes). So concluding that, you HAVE TO believe that it's okay for Christians to drink Alcohol in Moderation, if it doesn't lead them down a dark path.