3 years on, he had a baby

It’s been almost 3 years since my ex of 7 years broke up with me. I’ve been slowly trying to recover from this breakup that greatly affected my mental health. I’ve seen improvement so far but today I learnt he just had a baby with someone else.

Yes it’s been a long time. But the news was still shocking and upsetting. I don’t think it’s because I still want him. Maybe it’s because it seems unfair that he has moved on with life, now seemingly happy with a new family. While I’ve been struggling all this time just trying to be better for myself.

In 7 years, he was unable to fully commit to me and at the end told me he was no longer happy in the relationship. Yet in less than 3 years, he now has a child.

Perhaps it’s the universe telling me that he was really not the one for me. And that I should just get it together and officially move on to better things in life.

But wow has this been a reality check. And I hope for myself that this is what I need to help me get better.

Looking for some kind words to get me through this curveball. 🙏