Totally dumb question about when dudes insult women's looks

Hey all.

For context to my terribly stupid question, I try to be a better guy every day. I was once an asshole but over the last 20 years have become much better. I'm hetero male, but all my best friends are women because I really can't stand hanging out with dudes.

So, whenever I hear men say disparaging things about women's looks, I KNOW the reaponse is to be like, "idiot, her looks have nothing to do wuth anything".

However, I also WANT to say something like, "are you bonkers? Older women / stretch marks / mama bellies / etc are HOT!"

Like, I know that I need to help put forth the idea that women should be able to.l exist without having their looks discussed in ANY way...

But I also hate that so many men don't find normal women completely sexy and... is that all important? Do I respond at all to try to shake the scales from their eyes?

Does this question make sense at all?