Serious question: are all of your exes good, moral people? If not, do you judge yourself the way you judge Grimes?

Are all of your exes good, moral people?

If the answer is no, I hope you judge your own morality the same way you judge Grimes for having dated Elon Musk. If the answer is no, I hope you direct just as much hate towards yourself as you direct at Grimes.

Follow up question -- Do you judge women in abusive relationships (whose partners are thus by definition, evil abusers) for not leaving their partners after finding out that they were abusive? Do you judge them just as harshly as you judge their partner doing the abuse? Because to tell you the truth, I really doubt you people in this subreddit direct as much hate towards Elon as you do Grimes. It's almost too predictable for this world we live in! women under more scrutiny than the men actually carrying out the crime. Always having to be the victims of men's wrongdoings.

As a sane person, I don't support that nazi and I hate that Grimes ever dated him. But as someone who has been that woman in an abusive relationship in the past, who KNEW I was dating someone evil, who knew deep down that man lacked a conscience but couldn't bring myself to admit it to myself nor leave -- as that woman, I have sincere empathy for Grimes. And I would be absolutely heartbroken if anyone ever attributed to myself the immorality of the evil men I've dated. It would be a completely different story if Grimes had not come out against Elon like a million times. Please let her be in peace. Let her finally escape this disgusting man, who has taken over her entire life and continues to taint her image even after she left him. Grimes is Elon's victim too. Do you think he treated her like a princess during their entire relationship? The literal nazi? No. Nazis probably manipulate, gaslight, and abuse women. Especially when there is a power imbalance like this one. In fact, all of you probably wouldn't even be able to imagine how big of a power imbalance there was in that relationship, because it's incomprehensible how much power Elon even has. He even has Trump of all people working for him now.

Final thoughts: Grimes isn't perfect, and while she actually was dating him, I understood the criticism. She needed a wake up call after all. But please. Let her be in peace finally. Direct that anger and hatred towards the abuser himself and his supporters. Show her some grace, and start to forgive. Just as every single one of us have been forgiven at some point.