Is It Possible That Being "Unpopular" Can Actually Be a Strength in a Society That Values Conformity?

As INTPs, we’re often told that being "unpopular" or going against the grain is a weakness, but I can’t help but wonder: could it actually be a strength in a world that often praises conformity?

Think about it. Popularity usually involves aligning with mainstream opinions, social trends, and expectations, which might limit independent thinking. In contrast, being "unpopular" can provide us with the freedom to explore unconventional ideas and solutions without the pressure of fitting in. This sense of autonomy could be a double-edged sword, but I wonder if it’s not a form of strength in disguise.

Being outside the "norm" gives us room to critically analyze and question things that others might simply accept without thought. It’s often in these moments of divergence from the crowd that innovation and real intellectual growth occur.

I’ve also noticed that when you stop caring about fitting in, you start attracting people who appreciate you for who you truly are, rather than for some social façade. Isn't that an ironic twist?

So, my question is: Is being "unpopular" really such a bad thing, or is it just a sign that we're not afraid to think and act independently, even if it doesn’t always win us social favor? Would love to hear your thoughts.