Murder Weapon- could be golf club?

In Steve Thomas book, they found a golf club in the backyard with blonde hair in it.

When BPD let Pam go get “funeral clothes” from the house, the following weirdness occurred.

1) in the car, Pam explained to the officer she made her first million at age 32. In reality, she worked as a cosmetic sales person.

2) before entering, Pam hyped herself up. “I can do this! I can do this!”

3) Team Ramsey told BPD they needed funeral clothes, yet on the long list of items, was John’s golf clubs. It was clothes, Burke’s toys, personal documents, and fucking golf clubs. If my daughter gets murdered I’m not thinking about games. Is it because they wanted Pam to unknowingly grab the murder weapon left behind? They already took the duck tape, rope, and left the broken paintbrush.

3) after 1.5 hours of getting stuff, Pam gets back into the car. It was like she saw a spider; “get these things off of me!!!” She was freaking about the rubber gloves. The officer assisted her in removing them.

4) “I need a large Diet Coke with lots of ice now!” Not a direct quote but she demanded a Diet Coke with lots of ice immediately. The officer took her to get a Happy Meal, in which he paid for it.

The Paugh family was a weird bunch.

If it were the golf club, this would point way more closely to Burke because of his prior strike.