Is there a double standard with the chipendales situation?

Is going to a chipendales show pretty similar to going to a strip club? I feel like most women aren’t okay with their SO going to a strip club so why isn’t it okay for the men to not bc ok with their wife going to chipendales? Even if stripclub isn’t the right comparison, if you swap the chip guys out for women and the husbands go to the show wouldn’t they probably not be okay with it? Am i the only one who thinks it’s a double standard 😭