I really don't like when Jamie does this

Just read that scene in bees, when he wakes up from his dream about Frank and JBR. And of course he has to just immediately sleep with Claire, can't help it, no control at all. And of course Claire is immediately ready for him.

It's neither the first nor the only time. I just roll my eyes every time. Basically saying, Jamie has no control over his urges and I'm supposed to swoon over it?