A woman’s flat crotch

As a man whose arousal is completely tied to an erection I love thinking about how different it is for women. I know women’s clits do get “hard” and expand but I’ve always been envious of the fact that they can be 10/10 turned on and completely flat down there. Like they can wear tight leggings or 3 inch inseam shorts and bikinis and it doesn’t matter how turned on they get there’s still nothing poking out. While if I wore this same thing my dick would be bulging. Does anyone else feel jealous when a woman wears something you could never pull off as a man because of your penis?