What Kyle Could Learn From Jennifer about celebration without competition

I giggled when at Boz's "relaxing" spa day, Jennifer Tilly took one look at the robes and said "I love that our names are on the robes. I like people to know who I am." It did so many things in a wonderful way. It acknowledged the luxuriousness of such a gesture. By saying "our names" she made it about everyone, not just herself, and in saying "I like people to know who I am," she acknowledged what such a gesture projected while not making it about people who have such a robe and people who don't. She is so inclusive and playful with her language. She's never in competition. So rare. So welcome.