Why are *impulsive* thoughts almost always violent, but *intrusive* memories are just cringey?

IMPULSIVE

“I could drive into oncoming traffic right now.”

”I could push that guy down the stairs.”

”I want to slap this person I just met.”

INTRUSIVE

”Remember that time when I accidentally said ‘mannequin’ instead of ‘masquerade’ and the amputee teacher got super offended?”

”Not everyone likes their portraits, like the time I drew that pretty girl and she got weirded out.”

”Chokers are a thing I unironically wore in 2001.”