Why is Feyre being so mean bro

I just started this ACOSF and I might as well stop. Nesta is my favorite character and to see her treated with such injustice hurts my soul. I already know her and Cassian are supposed to be a thing I just don't know, especially with how it's goin rn. If my "mate" was treated this way I'd crash out. You don't hold an intervention for someone by ripping them out (without their consent btw) and plop them into a new home. I just want Nesta to shine my glorious queen. Tell me if it gets better or not cause ima drop otherwise