How are we vocally saying "loml"?

Do you spell out the acronym? Use the more standard "love of my life," or "loss of my life" as sung in the song?

I'm curious because it feels like saying "loss of my life" removes the thrill from hearing the last line, Taylor never actually says "love of my life" in the song.

I absolutely love this song and would love to hear your thoughts on if there's some consensus in speech among Swifties!