My ex finally agreed to separation agreement terms! I can finally move on!
I'm sooo happy and I can finally move on!!!!
I've been living with my parents for the past six months while going back and forth with lawyers.
My ex and I own a house together and I have been still making all the payments on it while he's been living there. He wouldn't send me any money.
He was also being stupid and unreasonable during our negotiations was and dragging out everything. So I've been broke while we've been sorting it out.
To avoid going to court I took a big financial hit so he could keep the house but I don't even care. It's been great reconnecting and living with my parents so I'm fine to keep doing that. They are getting older and can stay in their house longer now since I'm around to help out! Win, win!
Also, I'm planning on going back to school for my doctorate in the fall. Out of a shit relationship, no more mortgage payments, doing research I love, nothing is holding me back nowwwwwww!!!!!!