My Wife Violently Vomited When She Went Down on Me.

Hello All,

I am a 41M and my wife is 40F. So we had our first date night in a long time tonight. My wife recently gave birth to our 3rd child and it's just been hectic. She's been having self esteem issues, and issues with getting older. I can see it weighs heavily on her about how she looks, how she's gained weight and her boobs aren't as perky as they once were. I never had an issue with any of these things. It's her who always mentions them, and seems to obsess over them. I try to be understanding and reassure that she is still just as attractive to me as the first day we met. But she always gets in her head about these things.

So anyways we finally got sometime to have us a date night out. The kids are away at their grandparents house for the weekend, so we decided to go out. We both got all dressed up and went to a fancy restaurant and everything was going great. We laughed and enjoyed each other a lot. We couldn't even remember the last time we had a night like this.

So we take our dessert to go, and my wife is all flirty and handsy on the ride home. I'm excited. It's been months since we last had any type of intimacy.

So we get home and we split the dessert, feeding each other, kissing and all that. Then she starts to go down on me. I'm super excited, and she starts gagging a little and she hadn't even got to my privates yet so I was like "whoa are you ok?" and she's like yeah yeah. She brushed it off cause she didn't want to ruin the moment. So she is undoing my pants and I can tell she is holding back gags. And I'm like I showered before we left, did I get that musty down there that fast.

She assures me everything is fine, and it's not me. So my pants are down, my d!ck all out and she goes to suck it and BOOM! She starts violently vomiting. I mean it was literally projectile vomit all over the place. Got on me, my clothes, the couch, the floor. Just everywhere. She can't stop, she's trying to catch it with her hands, but it's just so much. I'm scared to death now cause what the fuck is going on? Her eyes are red, she's drooling, she's got vomit everywhere. She's crying and all that.

I'm like we need to get you to the hospital cause I don't know what the fuck is going on?She's all apologetic and embarassed. She's apologizing and crying and saying the ER visit isn't neccessary. I'm like oh yes tf it is cause what happened here? So I go put on some clean pants quickly and we head out. She says she's not feeling so well, she's still nauseous, her heard hurts, and she's breathing funny, like almost wheezing. I'm so scared, I'm running red lights, I'm speeding, cause her breathing gets worst as I drive.

We get to the ER, I tell them what's going on, they see her, and see she's struggling to breathe, and her eyes are red, and now that I look at her, it seems like she's breaking out in hives. Her skin is red and bumping up as we speak. Like everything that could go wrong literally was going wrong. They get her back immediately. They give her oxygen, they ask what she ate and yadda yadda.

As it turns out, the dessert we split must've had almonds or made with almond butter or somehow came in contact with almonds cause as you can see my wife is deathly allergic to almonds. It was the scariest event in my life.

I thought I was going to lose her. When they got her stable and she finally went to sleep. They kept her over night just to be safe. I went in the bathroom and cried. I cried so hard because I was so scared. I thought she was about to die and if we didn't get her to the ER when we did, she probably would've. It was the scariest thought I ever had. I had a close friend of mine who just lost his wife due to a car accident. He's not the same and I don't think I could live with such pain and heartbreak.

I thought about our three kids and everything she does for them and how lost we'd all be. I was grateful I went with my first mind and got her to the hospital because she was literally saying how unnecessary it was.

But I haven't been so scared in forever. I was shaking, and crying and I felt stupid as hell. Cause we mostly avoid almonds, like I don't even eat them because I know my wife is allergic. But I guess tonight we were all caught up in date night and I was so excited to get some loving from my wife that I guess we simply forgot in that moment. When she started throwing up, I didn't even think she was having an allergic reaction. It has been so long since she had one and I guess I didn't even think about it really. I just knew something was wrong and got her to the hospital as soon as I could.

I'm so glad she's ok and she's gonna live. I was so damn scared. Like I was literally shaking and trying not to cry while this was happening. I was in the bathroom bawling my eyes out cause how could I let this happen. I was so caught up about having sex, I can't believe this happened. I keep saying I should've been paying more attention or actually let the waiter know about my wife's allergy. I mean so many mistakes were made and I almost lost my wife. I feel like an idiot. I know probably being too hard on myself but I was so damn scared. And now I feel dumb as hell cause if I would've just thought for a damn minute maybe we could've prevented this. I don't know. What a night.