Final Update - My wife refuses to accept our divorce and I think she's trying to trick me.

Hey everyone, in hindsight I regret making these posts because I think I received too many pieces of advice. I keep thinking I should have just handled it internally with just family. I don't regret my decisions, I just wish I gave myself more time to think.

Anyway here's the update. I'll keep it short.

The divorce was finalized months ago, our house was sold along with one of the cars, and my ex-wife is still living with her parents. I had a little more than 2-3rds of the proceeds wired to her account but the last time I talked to her Dad she hasn't touched a dime. I was informed that she checked into a mental health clinic but I don't know how long she was there or what her current state is. I changed my number but her Dad has emailed me a few times to check on me throughout this last year, which breaks my heart because he's a great man, him playing both sides of the fence like this really made everything go a lot smoother. Other than not warning me (which I honestly don't think it was his place to), he's been a huge help.

I moved back to my home state to be closer to my family. I may leave to go to another state again. I don't know, I'm not sure yet. I feel numb from this whole thing. Not much of a drinker so I've been smoking a ton of pot and working out to occupy my mind.

To everyone who didn't get a response from me in my messages, I'm sorry but there was just too many. I responded to as many as I could mentally handle.

I think that's it. I can't imagine that there would be any additional questions, but I'll answer whatever I can.