Advice

I am rated at 100% w/ two dependents plus spouse. I also am a full time student. My wife feels as though I am not doing enough to make money even though I bring in over 6k per month when I am actually in school. She doesn’t want to just settle with my current earnings, she is upset that I am leaving money on the table and that she has to work to pay for essentially her own bills. I want to focus on school and not go to work full time and try to be a student as well. I tried that before I found it to be very difficult with two kids and the responsibilities of a full household. She says ideally she wants to quit her job so she can be a SAHM and I balance full time work and full time student as well as continue my current role at home. Essentially what I am doing minus going to school. She works full time from home anyway.

How do I balance this because my wife sees the fact that I get this money as a stepping stone and not what it is. Has anyone else had to deal with this? Am I the jerk here for JUST wanting to be a student and have that be enough for now? We are not worried about bills or money but it’s not like we are rolling in money. It feels like she just wants her cake and wants to eat it too at my expense because she feels like that’s what I am doing.

Am I crazy? Am I wrong? Should I just get over it and get a job and say F school for now? Bc I can’t do both and I won’t do that to myself full time. Part time school seems like a waste since the months tick off regardless how I use them either way. A part time job is not acceptable to her either, she’s insistent I find a full time job.

Please let me know how you would handle this