So we can talk about whatever we want?

The post isn't gonna be taken if i ask a question and someone gives me a good answer and i say you're right, i thought of my original thought because of this, but this makes more sense? Cause i like to learn and theres really not a hill I'm willing to die on for any take, just cause i want to understand more things. So its frustrating to ask questions and being unable to hold a conversation about the topic cause they expect me to be set in my mind set, and argue against good points the comment section may have, even if i agree with them.