Boyfriend not giving me a lot of dopamine

Hi, I have a boyfriend who is loving and calm. He is my safe haven. He is also in the house the one who cleans up and does the laundry. There is something i am struggling with. He doesnt give me a lot of dopamine shots. My demand is higher than his supply and it annoys me so much. Is this my problem, should I adjust my expectations or is this a red flag? I think he is not neurodivergent or at least has less need for dopamine shots. It is sometimes driving me crazy, it can frustrate me so much- also that he doesnt have that need. At the same time, i love him so much and a bit part of me wants to stay with him. How do you guys coop? I know I could find the dopamine myself in other places, i just havent done that yet because in my mind 'he should provide me dopamine'. I am afraid. What do you think?