My bulge makes me self concious

Everytime i go out, i feel self conscious about my bulge showing. It”s not like huge but it’s definitely noticeable.

I almost only wear sweatpants since that’s more of my style, but even in black sweats i still feel like it’s too apparent.

I’ve had friends ask me if i was hard (assuming jokingly) and not believing i was wearing underwear. I had a friend tell me it makes me seem weird but it’s not like i’m doing it on purpose 😭

Do people actually pay attention or think you’re weird, or am i just overthinking this.

I had sent the last girl i hooked up with gym mirror picture (side angle), and after having sex, she told me about how she noticed my bulge and was thinking what she got herself into from my pic, definitely a confidence booster but it made me more self conscious about it, i don’t want to seem like a creep to random people.