Am I the only one this stupid crap happens to.

Dated a guy this summer, everything was going great. My trust issues are huge and should’ve seen the flags. Here’s the scoop (and don’t give a damn if he sees himself in this). The love bombing was too much, but figured it’ll settle down. Always touchy, wanted full attention and had set my boundaries pretty clear from the get go. Fast forward, dated 3 times and pulls his junk out. Um, told him immediately I didn’t need to see his junk, put the rat back in the hat. Of course he apologized, but one week later he does it again, talked about nothing but sex, and started to turn me off. Said I was a buzz kill. Is this the new norm for older men? I really am floored at the non committal, boundary crossing, ghosting jerks I’ve met. I’m not into this for FWB or a fling, but apparently those are the expectations?