Is this love bombing or am I just overreacting?
An almost 34f who has come on in leaps and bounds in the past year with my confidence through working on myself and by going on dates.
Met this guy 33 (through POF) Sunday last -he is very mature for his age. We had a long chat in my car and then grabbed a coffee. Overall the date went well and he has made it extremely clear that he is interested in me. He has stated this in texts and said it at the end of our first date.
I am sort of attracted to him and I like his personality. Maybe not my usual type if I'm being honest. I am not that excited yet.
However I feel like he may be messaging too much and I fear it could be love bombing.
He will send good morning texts and text me throughout the day. There is nothing sexual in the texts and no hey beautiful or anything like that. Just nice chat and he will send me voice notes too. But if I don't respond after an hour he will send a photo of something he is doing or a selfie. This morning he said good morning after I didn't respond last night because I fell asleep and then he sent a video clip of a something random again not sexual.
At the moment I would just rather message him during my lunch break and then the afternoon and then evening as I just feel like it is too much and I don't want to get sucked in if he is actually love bombing.
Oh I almost forgot an important mention - he updated a few of his pictures on POF yesterday which I found a bit odd and has fueled my thinking that he could potentially be love bombing!
Thoughts?