Everyone Against the Ego

Nowadays, we often hear about the widespread struggle people have with the concept of the ego. The ego, however, is not inherently something to be fought against. It is a system of identification that helps us navigate the world. Even when we say we oppose it, we are still identifying with something—belonging to a belief, a perspective, or a way of being. The ego, much like energy, doesn’t disappear; it transforms.

What we might truly be grappling with is the overwhelming influence of social media and societal ideals constantly being presented to us. This battle takes place in our minds, which are bombarded with messages and expectations at every turn. At each step of life, we encounter forces that subtly guide us to believe that who we are isn’t enough. Advertisements and media often suggest that happiness can be bought, as if joy and fulfillment don’t already exist within us.

The ego, in its essence, is part of our internal defense system. Phrases like "they hurt my ego" point to how it stores our sense of self, our identity, and the way we interact with the world. Instead of attacking the ego, we should aim to understand and strengthen it, making it an ally rather than an adversary.

In recent years, new spiritual movements and the rise of consciousness-awareness have brought value to many. However, some of these ideas have also been commercialized. Spirituality has, at times, become a business, with advice being offered based on individual perspectives. While this can be helpful for some, it’s important to remember that this guidance often reflects the personal experiences of the person giving it. As the saying goes: "The one who advises you does so to make you more like them."

Instead of blindly following external prescriptions for how to live, we should focus on cultivating a stronger relationship with ourselves—acknowledging our ego, our values, and our true sense of purpose.And the true path to enlightenment is discovering who we are and where we are going. It is about learning to love ourselves, both for our strengths and our flaws. The path to enlightenment is simply about being and finding happiness without barriers—just being free.
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