“You have to stop expecting healing from the person that hurt you.”

I found this quote the other day and I thought it would be especially useful for this community. Expecting a repaired relationship or closure (healing) from a ghoster (person who harmed you) really is madness and I think is the biggest spiritual lesson that I learned through the experience. An emotionally healthy person wouldn’t have harmed you in that way in the first place. Expecting healing from them in any form is not only unrealistic but dangerous.

People in general need to be better at recognizing safe places where they can actually go and be healed instead of continually reaching out to (or hoping for the return of) the snake that bit them in the first place.

Remember, if someone causes CHAOS in your life, they are NOT sent from God and are taking you away from your PURPOSE. People that are meant for you bring PEACE.

Search out peace instead of chaos and you will live a much healthier, happy life. Hopefully, this message helps some of you get the closure you deserve so you can move on to better, kinder people.