What if INTJs struggle to find a soulmate because they’re already complete?

Have you ever wondered why a lot of INTJs remain single for most (or all) of their lives, despite genuinely searching for a soulmate? Plato’s Symposium talks about the myth of the Androgyne, where humans were split in half by Zeus, and ever since, we've been searching for our "other half" to feel whole again. But what if INTJs don’t need another half because they’re already complete?

Think about it: some individuals might have already achieved a profound sense of inner wholeness. They’ve built their lives around self-awareness, self-love, and fulfillment, so they don’t necessarily "need" someone to complete them. Instead, they might radiate a kind of independence and contentment that makes others feel unnecessary in their journey.

This isn’t to say that INTJs are incapable of love or connection, but their struggle to find a soulmate might not stem from a lack or flaw. It might actually come from the fact that they don’t have that internal "void" many people are trying to fill. Their soulmate might already exist within them—a deep, personal harmony that others are still striving to find externally.

So, for those of you out there who feel like you’re doing everything right but still haven’t found "the one," maybe this is why. You’re not incomplete. You don’t need someone to "fix" or "complete" you, because you’ve already done that for yourself. Maybe, just maybe, your journey isn’t about searching for someone else but continuing to nurture the incredible person you already are.

Thoughts? Anyone else feel like this resonates?