Antiasian misandry is normalized on Reddit

Im not Asian myself as a black man but I'd like to point out the responses to the following two posts on AITA.

When a woman bodyshames an Asian man with racist stereotypes regarding their penis in response to him voicing his preference on body type she is celebrated. (https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/UVtWrE2eiE)

Vs an asian man defending against racist stereotypes with body shaming in response. (https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/RXNpEO8sjw)

Apparently he should have responded differently to a racist remark? It seems that society dismisses antiasian misandry and even penalizes how the victims respond.