Tell me all of your discovery techniques.

I know this is an insane post. I might not go through with a single suggestion.

D-day was less than a week ago. I’m looking to compile a list of methods to check my husband’s phone history and track use. I don’t think he’s truly addicted, but he did break a huge boundary of trust for an entire year. I want to know HOW to find more if it exists.

I was devastated enough to find out that he immediately deleted the reddit account he was using the moment I confronted him. I didn’t get very far back in the history, so who knows what else he was trying to hide. Unless it was just the initial desperate attempt to gaslight me.

I want to trust my husband. I never wanted to be this partner. I still don’t want to be this partner. But how can I trust anything he says when he broke the CLEAREST set boundary for a YEAR? I deserved to know the truth for that year, and I deserve to know any time in the future.