This seems like a never ending thing for me.

29M introverted as hell. No social life no friends. Recently my moms friend met her and the discussion went around my marriage and between all the conversation she told my mom that your son is very saada not tez as in todays world like us main teeze nahi hai.

When I got to know this it was literally hell for me I mean how can people be so judgemental I always give that women respect never spoke much due to my intovated nature and yet she said straight to my moms face. I am so done with it.

Thinking to be moo phat now.

How do you guys who are in similar situations or faced similar situations deal with it?

I never troubled or fought with anyone Apne kaam se kaam rakhta ho aur phir people say this kind of stuff acha hota agar main moo phat hi hota.

Please advice I really wanted to vent out this somewhere hence writing this post.