Ppl are making me feel bad because I'm having a girl.

From the time i even thought about getting pregnant I knew I wanted a little girl as my first, I just wished for my first baby to be a girl. Then i got pregnant my in-laws started speculating that it's a boy because apparently in his father's family line it's always a boy first. Then during my 5th month anamoly scan we found that we are having a little girl, I was on cloud nine! My husband was in a mix of shock and disappointment later when I asked him about it he said his anxiety came from a place of worry as to he has been around men all his life so he was worried as to how he will raise a girl now. But I have seen the change within him and he has also come to terms with it. I am nearing 33 weeks now (8 n half months) My in-laws are still gas lighting us both that it's a boy and the doctors are wrong. They just cannot accept the fact that we are having a girl. Seeing their obsession for a boy baby makes me feel bad for my little girl who is not even here yet. My parents are saying that this happens with every male partner's parents, but when the baby will be out in the world they'll love her like we love you and to not worry.. But they are just making me feel bad for having a girl that I am not able to enjoy my pregnancy.