What's something your narcissistic parent said to you that stays with you always?

It's small but in my early 20s my mom informed me I have a mustache and I should take care of it.

"Don't take this the wrong way, but you have a moustache "

Something that never bothered me until that day. My dad is Italian and I've always been hairy so it seemed insignificant. However, I hear those words everytime I look in the mirror and it's almost been a decade since she said them.