I (26F) found inappropriate photos of my friends on my (26M) phone in a hidden folder lastnight?

My boyfriend and I are coming up on 5 years and we live together. First of all I’d like to preface by saying this is the EXACT reason why I broke up with my last boyfriend before my current boyfriend. I went through his phone one night and found a hidden folder of a bunch of my friends photos screenshotted and zoomed in on their chests/asses. Well lastnight I went to set an alarm on my boyfriends phone and my curiosity got the best of me and what do you know I found a hidden folder full of pictures of my friends in bathing suits as well as photos/videos of my friends from my iPad photo gallery of them shaking their asses and a series of inappropriate photos. There was even a photo of my sister on there.

To say I’m heartbroken would be an understatement. He knew that my ex had done the exact same thing to me and I broke up with him on the spot over it. I am so disgusted, I can’t even look at my friends, I can’t look at my boyfriend it’s actually just flat out disturbing. What’s even more disturbing is that he was doing that while I was in the same apartment as him as a lot of the time stamps are between 1-5am. Most of these photos were saved just a couple weeks ago when we had a couple days of to celebrate his birthday. I actually feel sick to my stomach. How can people be so fucked up. Right before Christmas, I just got back from Christmas shopping for him and his family just yesterday. I actually cannot begin to wrap my head around the fact that this has now happened twice to me. Why is life so hard sometimes, this is one of these moments where I really wish I could just go into a coma until this pain stops. Why do men do this? I can’t even imagine ever looking at his friends in a sexual connotation. It’s just so wrong.