When our friends, who got pregnant their first cycle, invite us over for dinner to ‘catch up’ AKA talk all about their upcoming due date/first baby, knowing we’re still struggling and about to start IVF
…and yet if I say no to protect my own mental health, then I’m the bad person and feel guilty 😔 Husband isn’t as bothered and suggests he can just quietly ask his friend to ‘not discuss the baby’ (lol) yet it’s his MFI that’s the issue in the first place and suddenly I’m full of both rage and guilt all over again 🤦🏼♀️