Dress help!

hi! I’ve tried on about 40 dresses, and these are the best. I don’t LOVE any of them. My dream dress would be the Danielle Frankle Marlow dress. I’m not trying to find a dupe, just trying to find something that feels equally authentic to me. Black tie wedding in the southwest. Dress #1 is my favorite I think but I had a weird experience with the stylist which has sort of turned me off purchasing, it’s also the most expensive. Thoughts and suggestions welcomed!!